Cover of After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful

After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful

For the 70 percent of couples who have been affected by extramarital affairs, this is the only book to offer proven strategies for surviving the crisis and rebuilding the relationship written by a nationally known therapist considered an expert on infidelity.When I was 15, I was raped. That was nothing compared to your affair. The rapist was a stranger; you, I thought, were my best friend.

Read more

There is nothing quite like the pain and shock caused when a partner has been unfaithful. The hurt partner often experiences a profound loss of self-respect and falls into a depression that can last for years. For the relationship, infidelity is often a death blow.

After the Affairis the first book to help readers survive this crisis. Written by a clinical psychologist who has been treating distressed couples for 22 years, it guides both hurt and unfaithful partners through the three stages of healing: Normalizing feelings, deciding whether to recommit and revitalizing the relationship. It provides proven, practical advice to help the couple change their behavior toward each other, cultivate trust and forgiveness and build a healthier, more conscious intimate partnership.

Setting
USA
Audience
adult

Click a tag to see books like this one that share it.

Read it? Sign in to help tag it.

Liked After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful? Here’s where I’d start.

These suit anyone who liked After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful. Sign in and mark a few books for picks shaped around your own taste.

  1. Love Is Never Enough: How Couples Can Overcome Misunderstandings, Resolve Conflicts, and Solve Relationship Problems Through Cognitive Therapy Shares psychology, relationships, self-help
  2. Not "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity Shares psychology, relationships, nonfiction
  3. A Couple's Guide to Communication Shares relationships, psychology, self-help
  4. Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships Shares psychology, relationships, self-help

“People who read After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful tend to reach for these next.”

  1. What's Happening to Me?
  2. Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship
  3. Legacy of Magick
  4. Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love

“If you want more of the same (psychology about relationships), start with these.”

  1. Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage: America's Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship
  2. Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships
  3. The Emotionally Unavailable Man/Woman: A Blueprint for Healing
  4. The Science of Trust: Emotional Attunement for Couples

“If it was the relationships that hooked you, try one of these.”

  1. I Love You, But I'm Not in Love with You: Seven Steps to Putting the Passion Back Into Your Relationship
  2. Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
  3. The Return of Desire: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Sexual Passion
  4. The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships

“These start from a similar idea, even if they go somewhere else with it.”

  1. The ADHD Effect on Marriage: Understand and Rebuild Your Relationship in Six Steps
  2. The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It
  3. Living and Loving after Betrayal: How to Heal from Emotional Abuse, Deceit, Infidelity, and Chronic Resentment
  4. The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity