Cover of Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Intimacy or How Love Conquered Marriage

Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Intimacy or How Love Conquered Marriage

Marriage has never been more fragile. But the same things that have made it so have also made a good marriage more fulfilling than ever before. In this enlightening and hugely entertaining book, historian and marriage expert Stephanie Coontz takes readers from the marital intrigues of ancient Babylon to the sexual torments of Victorian couples to demonstrate how recent the idea of marrying for love is-and how absurd it would have seemed to most of our ancestors. It was only 200 years ago that marriage began to be about love and emotional commitment, and since then the very things that have strengthened marriage as a personal relationship have steadily weakened it as a social institution. Marriage, A History brings intelligence, wit, and some badly needed perspective to today's marital debates and dilemmas.

Audience
adult
Length
long · 432 pages

Click a tag to see books like this one that share it. Point at it (on a phone, tap it) for less of it instead.

Read it? Sign in to help tag it.

Liked Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Intimacy or How Love Conquered Marriage? Here’s where I’d start.

These suit anyone who liked Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Intimacy or How Love Conquered Marriage. Sign in and mark a few books for picks shaped around your own taste.

  1. A History of the Wife Shares nonfiction, history, feminism
  2. I Don't: A Contrarian History of Marriage Shares nonfiction, history, feminism
  3. Public Vows: A History of Marriage and the Nation Shares nonfiction, history, feminism
  4. A History of Mistresses Shares nonfiction, history, feminism

“People who read Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Intimacy or How Love Conquered Marriage tend to reach for these next.”

  1. The Meaning of Wife: A Provocative Look at Women and Marriage in the Twenty-First Century
  2. Here Comes the Bride: Women, Weddings, and the Marriage Mystique
  3. Virgin: The Untouched History
  4. Unhitched: Love, Marriage, and Family Values from West Hollywood to Western China

“If you want more of the same (history about feminism), start with these.”

  1. Bold in Her Breeches: Women Pirates Across the Ages
  2. Whore Stories: A Revealing History of the World's Oldest Profession
  3. A History Of Marriage
  4. History of the Breast

“If it was the feminism that hooked you, try one of these.”

  1. Well Met: Renaissance Faires and the American Counterculture
  2. Flapper: A Madcap Story of Sex, Style, Celebrity, and the Women Who Made America Modern
  3. America's Women: 400 Years of Dolls, Drudges, Helpmates, and Heroines
  4. A Larger Memory: A History of our Diversity, With Voices

“These start from a similar idea, even if they go somewhere else with it.”

  1. And They Were Not Ashamed: Strengthening Marriage Through Sexual Fulfillment
  2. A Lasting Promise: A Christian Guide to Fighting for Your Marriage
  3. Covenant Marriage: Building Communication and Intimacy
  4. Wife for Life: The Power to Succeed in Marriage