Cover of This Mean Disease: Growing Up in the Shadow of My Mother's Anorexia Nervosa

This Mean Disease: Growing Up in the Shadow of My Mother's Anorexia Nervosa

In the first book written by the child of someone who died from an eating disorder, Daniel Becker shows us the heartbreaking details of his mother's anorexia nervosa—her unrelenting obsession with food and her inability to nourish herself. His earliest memory of her is watching as she packs her suitcase for the first of numerous hospitalizations. From the observations of that confused child to his realization of helplessness as an adult, Daniel conveys the inner world of an anorectic and her family. He provides an intimate portrayal of how he, his father and his two brothers each struggled to balance their loyalty to Mom against the increasing awareness that only by separating from her could they ensure their own survival. In the end, Daniel must come to terms with his mother's slow demise and begin to lead a life out from under the shadow of her illness.

Read more

Part cautionary tale and fully descriptive of how eating disorder effects family members.

Audience
adult
Length
short · 183 pages

Click a tag to see books like this one that share it. Point at it (on a phone, tap it) for less of it instead.

Read it? Sign in to help tag it.

Liked This Mean Disease: Growing Up in the Shadow of My Mother's Anorexia Nervosa? Here’s where I’d start.

These suit anyone who liked This Mean Disease: Growing Up in the Shadow of My Mother's Anorexia Nervosa. Sign in and mark a few books for picks shaped around your own taste.

  1. Purge: Rehab Diaries Shares memoir, eating disorders, ed
  2. How to Disappear Completely: On Modern Anorexia Shares memoir, eating disorders, ed
  3. Biting Anorexia: A Firsthand Account of an Internal War Shares eating disorders, memoir, ed
  4. Thin Shares eating disorders, ed, memoir

“If you want more of the same, start with these.”

  1. Catherine: The Story of a Young Girl Who Died of Aneroxia
  2. Hope and Other Luxuries: A Mother's Life with a Daughter's Anorexia
  3. Project Semicolon: Your Story Isn't Over
  4. This Close to Happy: A Reckoning with Depression

“If it was the eating disorders that hooked you, try one of these.”

  1. Insatiable: A Young Mother's Struggle with Anorexia
  2. Distorted: How a Mother and Daughter Unraveled the Truth, the Lies, and the Realities of an Eating Disorder
  3. An Apple a Day: A Memoir of Love and Recovery from Anorexia
  4. Slim to None: A Journey Through the Wasteland of Anorexia Treatment

“These start from a similar idea, even if they go somewhere else with it.”

  1. Unwell
  2. Lying in Weight: The Hidden Epidemic of Eating Disorders in Adult Women
  3. Next to Nothing: A Firsthand Account of One Teenager's Experience with an Eating Disorder
  4. Health Food Junkies: Orthorexia Nervosa: Overcoming the Obsession with Healthful Eating