Cover of Loving an Adult Child of an Alcoholic

Loving an Adult Child of an Alcoholic

The child of an alcoholic develops patterns of behavior during childhood which carry over into adult life. As children they were taught to cover up the family secret and suppress their feelings. No matter what is going on, as adults, when asked how she or he is doing your partner will likely answer -fine.- Distrust, fear of abandonment, and sensitivity to criticism are all major issues for your adult child. Recognizing these patterns and changing the ones that cause problems will help you and your partner enjoy a deeper relationship.

Audience
adult
Length
medium · 229 pages

Click a tag to see books like this one that share it. Point at it (on a phone, tap it) for less of it instead.

Read it? Sign in to help tag it.

Liked Loving an Adult Child of an Alcoholic? Here’s where I’d start.

These suit anyone who liked Loving an Adult Child of an Alcoholic. Sign in and mark a few books for picks shaped around your own taste.

  1. Co-Dependence: Misunderstood--Mistreated Shares psychology, nonfiction
  2. Can Christianity Cure Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder?: A Psychiatrist Explores the Role of Faith in Treatment Shares psychology, nonfiction
  3. Life Beyond Your Eating Disorder: Reclaim Yourself, Regain Your Health, Recover for Good Shares psychology, nonfiction
  4. The Battered Woman Shares psychology, nonfiction

“If you want more of the same (psychology about addiction), start with these.”

  1. The Resilient Self: How Survivors of Troubled Families Rise Above Adversity
  2. Every Silver Lining Has a Cloud: Relapse and the Symptoms of Sobriety
  3. Can Love Last?: The Fate of Romance over Time (Norton Professional Books)
  4. The Marriage Clinic - A Scientifically Based Marital Therapy

“Readers describe these the same way.”

  1. Psychobook: Games, Tests, Questionnaires, Histories
  2. Learning Theories: An Educational Perspective
  3. On Becoming a Counselor: A Basic Guide for Nonprofessional Counselors and Other Helpers
  4. Soul Murder: The Effects of Childhood Abuse and Deprivation

“These start from a similar idea, even if they go somewhere else with it.”

  1. Old patterns, new truths
  2. After The Tears: Helping Adult Children Of Alcoholics Heal Their Childhood Trauma
  3. Love Me, Don't Leave Me: Overcoming Fear of Abandonment and Building Lasting, Loving Relationships
  4. The Complete ACOA Sourcebook: Adult Children of Alcoholics at Home, at Work and in Love