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Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex

How do you tell your partner that you'd like to be spanked?

Where can you find a good dominatrix?

If your husband like to wear your panties, does that mean he's gay?

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What really goes on at SM clubs?

After you tie someone up, what exactly are you supposed to do?

Is there such a thing as normal sex?

If you've ever wondered about the ins and outs of bondage, spanking, or cross-dressing, look no further. Come Hitheris a frank, friendly guide on how to turn your secret fantasies into satisfying expressions of love and desire. The official resource guide for SM/fetish sex at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, Come Hitherproves that a little kink can be a lot of fun.

Audience
adult
Length
medium · 336 pages

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