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Emotional Intelligence

Most of us have had a moment when we failed to see a situation from another person's point of view, and the result was an argument, a damaged relationship, or a tense office. This guide argues that the underlying problem is often a lack of emotional intelligence, a set of skills that shapes how we read and respond to other people's feelings. These skills decide whether our interactions go smoothly or fall apart, and they matter in personal relationships and in leadership. The book explains what emotional intelligence is, where the idea came from, and the science behind it. It describes how emotions and temperament relate to it, sets out its core competencies, compares it with IQ, and offers practical steps for building these abilities in everyday life.

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